Sensual Femdom

This is the very first kink I ever had. A loving relationship with a powerful woman who just happens to be in charge. I don't know if it comes from some deep mommy thing or what (though I hate mommy porn. Nothing kills my hard on faster than hearing some porn actor call the actress Mommy, or vice versa. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with it if that's your fantasy, it just isn't mine.)

Anyhoo, sensual femdom. I love the Dominatrices who are calm and in charge. The screaming angry "You pathetic worm!" kind of Mistresses seem not to be in control of themselves. On top of that it feels very tropeish to me. "You maggot!" I mean god, who wants to hang out with a person they think is a piece of shit?

I want my Mistress to like me. I want her to enjoy my company. Does this mean there is never an occasion for anger or punishment? Of course not, but for me, those things should be a means to an end. They should reinforce who is in charge, and who obeys.

A couple of examples of serenely in control femdoms in movies are...

From 2002 Staring Brigette Fonda "The Snow Queen" There are a couple of moments where she gets angry, but even those don't blow the sexiness for me.

And the swimming pool/chair scene with Dana Delany in the 1994 movie "Exit to Eden"

Here's the picture I was looking at that which got me thinking about this. It's a very old drawing I did on my first computer, and you can probably see some differences in my style.

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